Bathroom makeover on the cheap....

I consider myself “apolitical.” In other words, I have an opinion, a personal “ideology,” but I really try to avoid all the political “fodder.” It’s just too depressing, stressful, overwhelming…

It eats into my personal happiness.

But with all that is going on, I found myself sitting on the couch mesmerized by the news ALL DAY FOR AN ENTIRE WEEK!

I was so overwhelmed.

I HAD to get moving and my little morning walk and ride wasn’t cutting it…just too much time left in my day.

So I tackled a project I could not have cared less about lifting a finger or spending a dime on…the guest bath.

It gets used MAYBE 2-3 times a year when the kids come for overnight visits. I threw down a few comfy rugs, stocked it with “guest necessities” (this stuff is important) and hung a nice curtain. I would clean it when I knew we were going to have over night company…other than that…out of sight, out of mind.

The fact that few used it or saw it on a regular bases was just fine by me.

It wasn’t completely offensive.

It was just “blah.” Beige walls, off-white cabinets, dated, boring lighting and fixtures…just blah.

Again, who cares…

But I needed to get moving and put my body in motion. And this was the perfect project. Inside in the AC but away from the TV.

Inspiration…anything “unblah.”

My plan…”unblah” it.

Budget…as little as it takes to “unblah” it.

Usually I am all for finding an inspiration, making a plan, and working with a sound budget. In my opinion, it is the only way to attack a big project like this.

But I need to move and I didn’t have the time or patience to sit and think about this for weeks. I decided my MAIN objective was to use the materials I have on hand and try to make a few changes that would “unblah” the space without breaking the bank.

First on the list…get rid of all the gold fixtures. The style wasn’t TOTALLY offensive but they are gold…gold towel and hand towel bars and gold TP holder. I decided to “repurpose” the hand towel holders and TP holder by painting them black. A little primer, a little black paint…both in my stash. Cost…zero.

I also replace the faucets…the existing weren’t totally offensive but these were pretty inexpensive on Amazon…less than $50 each.

I removed the towel bar and added a little bit of board and batten with hooks for towels. Similar to my entry….super simple…again look for a tutorial that makes sense to you! Less than $50.

I used some leftover trim paint to paint the board and batten and all the trim. Cost…zero.

I painted all the doors in the main part of the house before we moved in…but again, this space got completely ignored! I even ordered black door knobs but never put them on these doors. I used the left over black paint and the knobs I bought over a year ago. Cost today…zero.

The cabinets….I used the leftover paint from my master bath cabinets. Cost…zero.

I did buy new inexpensive hardware. About $4 each so less than $40. (But I could have painted the existing hardware with black paint I had on hand.)

The ceiling needed to be painted. Big water spot around the HVAC vent. I sprayed the spot with some Kilz I had on hand and dug out the leftover ceiling paint! Cost….zero.

The beige walls needed to be “deblahed.” I painted them white…plain ole’ pure white. I only needed about a gallon and my son had some leftover from their house. Cost…zero.

I would have loved to change out the 23 year old tops…maybe add a pretty tile backsplash…but the tops aren’t terribly offensive (just a bit dated) so for now they stay. Just added the new faucets.

Three new light fixtures…two vanity lights and a pendant light…again, Amazon. All three for less than $250.

I could have repurposed the lights that where there with a little paint but the new were worth the investment.

Again, this space only gets used 2-3 times a years so it’s not like I need something expensive.

The flooring could stand to be changed…but again, this is a room that is rarely used….soooooo…..

The only other thing I would love to do in this room is change out the mirror…or at least frame it. I found THIS tutorial for a wall treatment I absolutely LOVE….

Not necessarily the gold mirrors…I think I would go with round wood framed. But I love the wood slate treatment and I may eventually tackle that project…someday…maybe when we have another national crisis and I need to focus on something constructive.

Sadly at the rate our country is going, that may be next week.

With all the negative looming over our heads…fires, hurricanes, Afghanistan, Covid, inflation….I can not stress enough how important it is to stay focused on the positives in your life. Believe me when I say I GET IT. It is hard to stay positive when people we love are sick and dying, our retirements are swirling the drain, you can’t meet you monthly financial obligations, the very fabric of our great country is being shredded.

Turn off the tv…shut down your computer….turn your radio dial. I’m not advocating bathing yourself in complete ignorance….just turn off and tune out the onslaught of negativity and focus on something that makes you happy.

The laughter of your children as they play.

The sound of the the crickets and birds on your morning walk around the neighborhood. (Get out and breath fresh air…EVERY DAY)

The babble of a brook in a nature park.

Coffee on the porch early in the morning before the heat and humidity sets in.

A tiny bit of “quiet time.” (Whether you do yoga, meditate, read your bible, just sit and stare…ALWAYS carve out a little bit of quiet, alone time EVERY DAY.)

A stroll down the aisles of Hobby Lobby…fall and Christmas are just around the corner!!!

I’ll admit it…my life isn’t all roses and peach fuzz. Somedays I really struggle to find something positive to focus on. But as I said HERE, you choose your “hard.”

Choose wisely.

Today I muse...about confidence!

Occasionally I will get a comment on an old post and have to go back and read the post to see what I even said.

Man I am the smartest person I know…..hahahahahahahaha!

Seriously, not even close.

But on occasion I feel I have something important to share that may resonate with others!

This week I received a comment on a post from two years ago…”This is awesome.”

Seriously? What in the world could I have said that was “awesome.”

When I reread the post I realized that it was indeed “awesome”….and timeless. Just this past week I took a self-defense class and when we shared, I shared this same exact “personal resolve” as it applied to self-defense.

With respect to defending one’s self, it is all about CONFIDENCE.

The same can be said for DIY projects.

So here is the original post from two years ago with a ittlle editorializing.

“MY YOUNGEST SON IS GETTING MARRIED NEXT WEEK!

Precious bride-to-be…they met in college and have known each other for nine years. They want a small wedding…family only…then they will have a “reception” at their house the next day. (She has been my daughter in law for two years now and yes she is still precious….and they have given me a grand puppy!)

Being the mother of the groom is pretty smooth sailing…UNTIL they ask you to make THE cake. I experimented with fondant TEN YEARS AGO and now they think I am a professional baker!

They want three layer cakes… a chocolate cake they can decorate with flowers, my strawberry cake with a fruit topping, and a funfetti cake with sprinkles…all covered in buttercream icing.

I have spent the last two weeks baking and icing “test cakes”…yes, I pretty much walk around in a “sugar coma” most of the time! (I stopped eating sugar 1 1/2 years ago….I think the weeks of experimenting and feeling like crud convinced me I should NOT be eating sugar!)

Since all the cakes need to have a “smooth” finish (and fondant is evidently so yesterday), I decided I couldn’t use the strawberry buttercream icing on the outside of the strawberry cake so I tried just using it between the layers. I watched a ton of youtube videos on how to ice a cake smooth with butter cream icing and the strawberry cake turned out AMAZING! UNTIL… it sat out and warmed up and the strawberry buttercream between the layers couldn’t handle the weight of the layers and “bulged” my perfectly smooth exterior! CURSES! But this is why you “test!”

Back to youtube to find out how to keep a buttercream iced cake from “bulging” when it warms to room temperature.

Problem solved…I hope…I tested the new process today…so far so good.

If all else fails, I know a few REAL professional bakers I can call on at the last minute! Fingers crossed!

No problem, I rocked it!

This whole process got me to thinking about DIY anything…whether it be stripping and refinishing furniture, tiling, painting, baking…whatever!

My dad learned from his father how to build a house back when the builder poured the footings and installed the door knobs…and everything in between.

He grew up in construction and he learned how to “do it all.”

I was the only girl…but I was the oldest and probably the most like my dad…and both my brothers were typical “middle” and “youngest” children. So while Dad would start a project with one of my brothers, because, well, they were boys, his “Type-A” personality just couldn’t handle their “inattention.” Usually he would get frustrated with them and call on me to help.

Which is how I learned to do the “construction” and woodworking thing. I jokingly say I cut my teeth on a block of wood and learned to walk in a cabinet shop…but honestly, I’m not exaggerating.

Sadly, he didn’t have time to teach me everything.

But he did teach me several important life lessons.

First, if you want something done and don’t have a lot of money to hire someone to do it for you, you do it yourself. In today’s world it is super easy to turn to the internet and find a tutorial for just about anything…if we really want to learn how to do something, we have a huge resource at our finger tips…something my dad didn’t have!

Second, confidence. My dad didn’t actually teach me to lay tile or strip furniture or build a swing pergola…but working with him I gained the confidence to roll up my sleeves and do the work.

I often joke with my kids…just think of all the cool things we wouldn’t know how to do if we had tons of money to hire everything done.

It is tough to have “nice things” when you are on a tight budget.

But if you want beautiful throw pillows, learn to sew! Where? Most hobby shops, county extensions, a friend.

If you want a beautiful tile backsplash, learn to install tile! Where? On the internet, apprentice for a tile setter, take a class at your local home improvement store!

If you want a swing pergola, learn to build one! If you want a painted wall, learn to paint! If you want to change the look of a ho-hum piece of furniture, learn to strip or paint furniture!

If you want a beautiful wedding cake, well….do what I am doing…youtube and trial and error!!! (Just don’t do it the week of the wedding!)

DIY is a lot like “personal change.” If you want or don’t like, you have to be willing to roll up your sleeves and do the work…want to lose weight, do the work…want to refinish a dresser, do the work.

(I heard an interesting “thought” the other day….it’s hard being overweight, it’s hard loosing weight. It’s hard working two jobs, it’s hard being broke. It’s hard building a strong marriage, it’s hard being in a crappy marriage…etc. CHOOSE YOUR HARD!")

Where do you get the confidence….sorry, no one will give it to you and there is no specific place you can go to get it. There are a ton of self-help sites and books that tell you “how to get confidence.” But in a nut shell…. confidence comes from making a CHOICE to do something and putting in the time and effort to accomplish it.

Do you “get confidence” if you try something and fail?

Well, in my opinion, kinda-sorta…it really depends on how you CHOOSE to look at that “failure.” If you look at it and say “well, I guess I can’t do that,” then no, you didn’t gain any confidence.

If you look at the “failure” and say “well, I guess I shouldn’t do it THAT way, but I’ll try it another,” then yes, you have gained a little knowledge and a little confidence.

Failure doesn’t destroy “self-confidence.” The way you THINK about it, the way you PROCESS that failure in your brain, does.

I’ve probably over simplified it. But I have learned in my 55 years that MOST things are pretty simple.

This morning get up and look in the mirror and say “Today I am CONFIDENT that I will________.” (keep it super simple and positive) Tonight, if you did not fulfill that statement, look in the mirror and say “Today I did not _________, but I am confident I will TRY again tomorrow!” Congratulate yourself for something you DID accomplish…even if it seems silly and simple! Then smile at yourself!!!!

Looky there…you just gained a tiny smidge of confidence.

Coffee Bar...

When I looked to Pinterest for inspiration for a coffee bar I realized that there are some super serious coffee connoisseurs out there. I just wanted a nice organized place for a few coffee necessities.

My stove top area in the kitchen is a bit tight for a “coffee station”…

…but we managed because I have TONS of prep space on my island. Regardless, I wasn’t happy with having my coffee maker in this area….and I didn’t want to have a full sized coffee pot taking up even more space so we would have to remake coffee all morning in our little 4 cup maker.

I decided to utilize a corner of the counter top in the laundry room for a “coffee station.”

Even though we make coffee every morning, the distance from the kitchen trash can and water source was almost equal so it really was no biggy to put it in there vs. on the kitchen counter.

Right now I am on a quest to use up some of the wood and materials I have accumulated over the years. It would have been real easy to go out and buy new materials to make shelves but I decided to get resourceful.

When I remodeled Katie’s room eons ago I removed the black floating shelves she used as her makeup station….

(Man my photo skills sucked!!!!)

I’ve kicked those things around for YEARS thinking I would eventually use them.

They weren’t the size I wanted for my “coffee station” and not even the style. But I decided I would try to make them work.

The first thing I did was cut them down. Not difficult since they are constructed out of fake wood and cardboard. I did have to take a metal grinder to one of the metal support brackets to make it shorter, but that was seriously no biggy.

I did add some wood support inside the corners of the cut down shelves because my next step was to clad them in wood.

I had some leftover “bead board planks” from another project…similar to this…

…so I used that to clad the tops and bottoms of the shelves (just glue and a few nails). Then I used some 1”x3” pine boards I had for the fronts and sides. A little stain…a little polycrylic to seal.

Repurposed floating shelves…they didn’t cost me a dime because I used scrap materials I had on hand.

My goal was “rustic” shelving…I think I accomplished that.

I did purchase a few new canisters…one for coffee, decaf, and cocoa.

The old silver tureen has held my filters for years…love it.

I found this cute little office supply thingy…originally labeled for paperclips, rubberbands, erasers, stamps etc.

I decided it would be perfect for all the different sweeteners my family insists on…God forbid they use the one I use. I relabeled each space for my purposes.

A fake plant. (BTW I keep reading fake plants are a decor faux pas…ask me if I care!)

We did purchase a larger coffee pot.

Again, this space is right off the kitchen so it really isn’t a bother. I like that it freed up a little bit of kitchen counter space.

I would like to add that 1) I now have a HUGE laundry room and 2) it is just Brian and me so rarely are there piles of laundry demanding my attention. I can see where some may not have the room or desire to use the laundry room for this purpose! But for us, it worked out perfectly.

I am a HUGE proponent of looking to Pinterest for inspiration…but sometimes we get a little intimidated by what we see online and forget we don’t NEED all that froo-froo or even have the space for it….

Don’t get me wrong…I think these spaces are amazing…but for YOU are they realistic? Hopefully my tiny little corner will inspire you to “think outside the box” if you need to create a space. Know that you don’t need a huge space for a basic coffee bar if you just need a place for a few basics.

Making a table or bench top...

One tool I wanted for years was a “biscuit joiner.”

One of the many things I love about my kids….when I ask for a specific tool for Chirstmas/birthday/Mom’s Day, they listen. So several years ago I got a biscuit joiner for Christmas!

This little tool has allowed me to make a few things I otherwise wouldn’t have been able to make. It allows me to join together several boards to make a larger board. A necessity if you want to make benches or table tops.

Let me give you a few examples….

The first was this bench….

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I was able to join together the three 1”x6” boards and the ends to make a strong top.

Brandon and Taylor wanted a plain pine table and bench for their new house. I guess they could have spent a fortune like we did for a custom made table but that isn’t really an option for a young couple.

So we went to Lowes, picked out some straight, nice boards with good grain and used the biscuit joiner, glue and clamps to create a table top and bench top.

After some serious construction, a LOT of sanding, a polycrylic clear coat, and some nifty bases, they have an AMAZING table and bench!

Last year I went looking for some shelving…I found one I absolutely LOVE. It was from the same company that built our dining table so I knew the quality would be amazing….but the price tag was just a tad too steep!

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I love everything about this shelving unit….the look, the style, the quality.

So I went looking for a less expensive option. I found one I thought was okay on Overstock.

Waaaay less expensive…and for obvious reasons. The frame is metal vs welded steel and the shelving material is MDF vs. beefy solid wood.

The look and style is very similar…almost identical sizing…but the MDF shelving HAD to go. I knew immediately I wanted to replace them with solid walnut.

It has only taken five months to get around to this project.

The biscuit joiner was a life saver.

Walnut is a pretty expensive wood…and finding pieces wide enough for the needed 12” shelving was pretty much impossible (without a serious outlay of cash.) What I did find were 7”ish board we ran through my son’s table saw and joined together….

Using a biscuit joiner is NOT difficult…just take your time and follow the directions.

One little trick I did learn was how to mark the joints so they lined up perfectly. Just put your two boards together then run a mark across the joint….

Then just line the joiner up with the mark and plunge away…the joints will line up perfectly!

Always dry fit everything to make sure it all lines up perfectly before you apply glue….

Apply glue and clamp….

Joiners are NOT difficult to use. Just follow the directions and watch lots of YouTube tutorials.

I sanded each piece with 220 grit sand paper, tack cloth and sealer.

I used Waterlox as a sealer…no stain…same stuff I used on my kitchen cabinets and I have been extremely pleased with it!

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I was able to take a shelving unit fit for a dorm room and turn it into a beautiful accent piece!

LOVE!

A little tweeking to the laundry room...

There weren’t too many “structural” changes to be made in this house. Most of the big stuff was done before we moved in but there are a few little things I have been tweeking since we move in,

One is the laundry room. I installed the window before we moved in (featured HERE) , new tops and sink, shelf above the washer and dryer, and replaced the light fixture. Since we moved in I have painted the cabinets, changed the hardware, and added a coffee bar (to be featured later!)

I don’t know who the moron was who thought 4’ was wide enough for the washer and dryer opening….

Why is this an issue?

And worse, I have been having issues with the dryer properly venting. Another moron ran the dryer duct under the slab of the house to the back yard, a good 40’. An absolute no-no. Why? Because the length is entirely too long for a normal dryer to push the warm damp air AND they can potentially (as mine has) take in ground water. So you end up with water in the duct and moist lint sticking to the inside of the duct. Which of course sets off your dryer and shuts it down repeatedly.

I can’t even periodically pull out my dryer to at least attempt to clear the duct work without first pulling out the SUPER heavy washing machine, then moving the dryer sideways.

Hence the problems with the narrow opening. (Thank God I don’t have a dryer with a drop down door!)

Serious pain in the rear and a problem I knew I was going to have to deal with..,..eventually.

What has been causing the serious case of procrastination is my knowledge of framing.

When you frame openings for doors and windows, you have to put a “header” above the opening….let me TRY to explain.

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Normally walls have studs every 16” to carry the load of the ceiling weight. The header is to provide solid support over an opening. Now, you have to remember that a 2” x 4/6/8 is actually only 1 1/2” thick, so in order to make a “header” you sandwich two 2xs (usually 10” or 12”) and a 1/2” piece of plywood together…making a 3 1/2” thick header, the width of a 2x4 stud (because it is actually 1 1/2” x 3 1/2”). That header stretches the width of the opening and sits on a “trimmer stud,” which is attached to a “king stud.”

I suspected that when I removed the 8” of wall on the left to widen the opening, the header would be sitting on a trimmer stud, which meant I was going to have to take the entire header out and make and install a new one long enough for the new, larger opening. MAJOR pain in the rear because that meant removing all the sheetrock above the opening to the ceiling, install a new header, then repair and paint the new sheetrock.

The day came…the dryer was no longer getting it done and it was time.

I removed all the trim around the opening and cut out the wall on the left….

BY THE GRACE OF GOD the moron who framed the opening too small made the header too long!!!!!

I was able to slip a few studs in the wall under the header, trim the opening, paint and….

…WALLA. Problem easily solved with no major reconstruction or sheetrock mess.

Well, not “solved” per se….I’ve really only made it easier to clean the vent periodically (and open the door all the way.) The next big chore will be rerouting the dryer vent up the wall and across the attic. A much shorter distance and should solve my problem. But it is hot…super hot…and the attic is even worse. I have no desire to pass out and fall through the ceiling so this chore will wait until it is waaaay cooler in the attic.

Now, the downside….

…the flooring. When I removed the wall, I was left with this gap in the tile where they had tiled around the original framing bottom plate. Boo-hoo.,..now I might have to replace the floor tile in my laundry room! Of course I will have to conveniently forget that there is an entire box of this tile in the garage.

I want to replace the tile. I know this tile is original to the house because I used the exact same tile in my apartments 23 years ago…around the time this house was built.

So I want new…the question is do I NEED new. Or do I just replace the few pieces that need to be replaced.

Only time will tell. Knowing me I will wake up one day and take a hammer and crow bar to the tile….

But not today….today I am still recovering from getting my first Covid shot. I had Covid in December so I have used that as an excuse to not get the vaccine.

I am not a ”conspiracy theorist” and I rarely believe most of the crap posted on Facebook. And I certainly don’t believe this whole mess should have been politicized.

But this new variant has raised a few hairs on the back of my neck….and after having it and knowing how sick you can get, I decided to get the vaccine. We are also flying to Colorado in 8 weeks and at the rate things are going I worry that the airlines will require proof of vaccination to fly. I certainly don’t want to wait until the last minute.

So I got the shot….they say if you have had the virus the first shot will kick your butt. It did.

But I am much better and just about ready to take on another project. Hum…that floor is really starting to bug me….

My "life quandary"and FINALLY the shop reveal....

Occasionally I go back and reread some of my posts from the last eight years. Man i have transformed some awesome pieces of furniture and spaces!!!

Now that I am “semi-retired” I have been trying to decide what I want to do “when I grow up.” After a year of binge watching “Gilmore Girls” and finishing the little projects around this house, I desperately need something to do.

I still haven’t decided what.

I love refurbishing furniture but honestly my body isn’t exactly cooperating these days. After just one day of projecting, I am usually hobbled for at least two days.

I don’t like to golf, I don’t knit, sewing is NO WAY JOSE, I raised four kids so while I will eventually help with my future local grand kiddos, I don’t think I want to take them on full time.

Volunteer…an option, but where. I love animals but if I volunteered at a shelter I would have a house full of critters. I would love to work at a zoo, but sadly we don’t have one!

Sick kids…they make me sad. I just don’t know if that is something I could do.

Old people. Hum….to close for comfort?

A real job? Nice idea but I don’t want to work nights, weekends or holidays. Brian and I like to take little vacations so I need lots of flexibility. Not exactly an ideal employee.

Besides I have NO idea what I want to do and I don’t want to spend 20 hours a week doing something I don’t enjoy.

I am blessed. I was blessed to own a business for 23 years that darn near killed me but allowed me to care for my family and “semi-retire” at a relatively young age.

So what do I do?

This blog is a wealth of information and I am sure there is a way I could turn it into a “business.” But truthfully, I like sharing my experiences with those who need the guidance. And I don’t want to make people pay for that help.

Which bring me back to my first love….building, creating, repairing, helping, sharing, instructing…my blog logo says it all….I hope I can share with you a passion and desire to easily create a home you will love!

All this whining and moaning to finally share one of my favorite things about this house…the shop. A space I have wanted for decades, finally got, and now really can’t use to it’s full potential!

For YEARS I worked out of my garage…what a mess. When I saw this house had an amazing shop I was stoked! A place to keep all my tools and work on a few small projects and I would still be able to park my car in the garage.

It is insulated, it has electricity, large doors, windows….the only downside was it was SERIOUSLY ugly!
Like baaaaad ugly.

As with every inch of this house, I could see the potential.

I knew I had to make it pretty!

The windows were old aluminum windows so those had to be replaced. I even moved the front one to the left to make it more “aesthetically pleasing.” New light fixtures inside and out were a must. The doors were aluminum and vinyl siding and not real attractive so I did just enough to make them look a little better. New cedar posts, some shutters…

And the biggy,,…brick. No I am not a brick layers so I was super fortunate to find someone who would take on a few small projects. Finding brick to match the brick on this 22 year old house was dang near impossible, but I was able to find one that was close enough and it made all the difference in the world.

We went from having a big ugly vinyl shed in the yard to having a super cute building.

The inside…it’s a storage shed in spite of what it looks like from the outside. Lawnmowers, tools, yard stuff…nothing fancy. I love the workshops that are all perfect and spotless….but it is a shop/storage shed, plain and simple. (Note Brian’s big fancy grill/smoker….God forbid it sit on the patio and get wet like a normal grill)

As I shared HERE when I spruced up the storage shed at our old house, I firmly believe storage sheds should enhance your space…not just be a big eye sore where you store you mower and shovel.

GET CREATIVE…make it pretty. Take a little time to doll it up and make it something that is aesthetically pleasing rather than just a huge eye sore in your back yard. Pinterest (my “go to” inspiration") is full of outdoor buildings that have been transformed into something other than just big ole’ eye sores!

No, you do not have to do something as fancy (or expensive) as mine…but a Pinterest search and a little “oops paint” can really make a difference.

Do a little “storage shed” search, then let your imagination run wild. Remember, we have lived in this house almost a year and I am just now sharing…transformations don’t happen over night!

Lessons in DIY....

One of the things I love about this house is the irrigation system…no more dragging hoses and sprinklers around the yard all summer.

In theory.

The system has been severely neglect for years so it has been a total rework. We finally got the two zones (there are four) working for the bulk of the front and back yard.

As usual, I did what I always do when I want to learn something new. I hover. Followed the irrigation guy around watching every move he made (for a $100 an hour I figure I should get a lesson).

I googled how irrigation systems work and how to repair and replace malfunctioning and broken heads.

I installed the Zone 3 drip system for the flower beds. Yay me!

Now I think I am an expert and thought I could tackle Zone 2 which wasn’t working at all.

Zone 2, the zone on the north side of the yard, has been a total bust. I knew there HAD to be a break in the main water line some where, I just couldn’t find it.

I am tenacious…the darn thing was broken and come hell or high water I was going to fix it.

After WEEKS of digging around and tracing lines, I found not ONE, not TWO, but THREE breaks in the water lines…..curses!

Needless to say my newly sodded yard looks like it has been hit with mortar shells.

The first two breaks were relatively easy fixes….the third has been a total booger. It took three full days and at least 6 or 7 trips to Lowe’s…I repaired the same spot SIX times before I finally got it right…I think…I hope…unless one of the connections broke loose again when I covered it with dirt.

Today’s lesson on DIY. As I have said before, my daddy didn’t have time to teach me EVERYTHING I need to know about DIY. But what he did teach me was a valuable lesson. If you want something fixed, repaired, built, or changed, be willing to do the research and put in the time and muscle to do what needs to be done.

I didn’t have a clue about irrigation systems. Zip, zero, zilch. But I am not about to pay someone $100 an hour to do something as simple as change out busted heads. So I learned…and am still learning

The water line repairs….that’s another story. This was one of those times when after 3 days of crawling around in the mud and AT LEAST six trips to Lowe’s, I began to wonder if it was time to call in a professional.

I suspect it would take them all of about an hour to do what took me three days!

DIY lesson number two….know your limitations.

That’s a tough one for me.

I do get to share one little project I managed to complete while I was waiting on water line repairs to dry.

Years ago I bought these old metal wheels at an auction. Thought I might sell them but never have so they just sat in the yard with no real purpose.

This is the picture I took to post on Facebook Marketplace eons ago….

I’m not really a “yard ornament” kinda person so the fact that I had these big ole metal wheels just sitting in my yard was, well, just not my jamb.

I moved them to the new house and set them in the back corner of the yard and thought MAYBE I could find something to do with them…..eventually.

Now I do like “sitting” areas….and the more I looked at these wheels, the more I thought, “Hum, just MAYBE I can figure out a way to turn this into some kind of bench or something.”

So last week Brian and I went out to this ratty little old “hobby mill” and picked up a live edge board, brought it home, power washed it and made a bench…I really like how it looks tucked away in the back corner of the flower garden.

(The concrete “bench” in the forefront of the photo was there when we bought the house…we were told it was part of the old farmhouse that sat here originally…that sucker isn’t going anywhere! Makes a great place for squirrel food in the winter!)

Presto, bingo! Now instead of having some big ole’ honkin’ metal wheels in my yard that cause me confusion and grief, I have this nifty one of a kind bench in my back flower garden.

I haven’t decided whether to seal it or leave it natural.

LOVE!

We picked up another piece of milled wood just in case we needed another piece…I decided to use it to make a another bench. The concrete bases were from a bench in my Mother’s yard. It use to have a concrete top but someone (who I shall not name since it might embarrass my oldest daughter) sat on it and busted it. So these bases have just been sitting around waiting for inspiration.

I think I will seal these boards. I love how you can see the mill marks and a sealant will really make those “pop” like it did on this old wood I used to make a table.

Irrigation system is (fingers crossed) fixed and I managed to get a few little projects complete.

Makes for a good week!

Painted bathroom cabinets...

As I mentioned in the first two reveals of my master bathroom (HERE and HERE), it is one of those ever evolving rooms.

This is where we last left off…

…the addition of the operable windows. I can not express how much I love these.

The cabinets….not so much. They are actually kind of an off-white-yellowed-ick kind of color. And the hardware was pretty blah and cheapo. Cheapo is great if it has just a tiny bit of character, but these didn’t.

I debated changing out the drawers and doors to mission style doors but honestly I don’t want to spend the money on them right now. Someday I may do some major magic on these cabinets but for right now I just want to give the room a more “polished” look.

Paint…hum. An inexpensive way to give a space a little facelift.

So the debate raged…white or color…and if color, what color.

You would think as much as I do this kind of thing paint color would be no big deal for me.

WRONG!

This is just a few of the paint samples I brought home.

This is the trick to finding the right paint color. Go to the store and pick up every sample you THINK you might like…then take them home and look at them in your light. You would be surprised at how much a paint color can change in different lighting. If you still find yourself drawn to 2-3 colors, buy sample pots…they are well worth the investment. Also, if you are torn between a light color and just a tad darker, go light. First, the bigger the area, the darker a paint will look. Second, if you still think you want darker you can always go back and have them mix it the darker shade. Once you have the darker shade mixed, you really can’t do much more than buy another gallon.

I finally landed on one I think I kinda sorta like. I ordered simple brushed nickel hexagon hardware…inexpensive but with a tiny bit of character.

The two vanities took all of about 1/10th of a gallon of paint. I should have bought a quart but custom colors tend to be a smidge off in the quarts.

All in all I’m not UNHAPPY with it, but not sure I am over the moon thrilled. For the time and money you can’t beat slapping a coat of paint on a wall or a piece of furniture or cabinets to change the entire look.

Now, I want to share my latest “find.” I am, as I have said before, “old school.” Primer and oil-based on furniture, trim and cabinets and latex on walls.

I have experimented with a relatively new (to me) product and I have decided I kind of like it.

It is a “hybrid” paint….will go over latex OR oil-based without the need to strip or prime. I do knock off the shine and any rough spots just a tad with 220 grit sandpaper and wipe it all down with tack cloth, but other than that it takes very little prep. And the super cool thing is it doesn’t matter if the old paint is oil-based or latex…usually that matters A LOT. This hybrid paint needs no additive, brushes on super easy, “levels” beautifully (which is great if you are brushing or rolling on wood), cleans up with soap and water and so far seems super durable.

The only problem I have with it is it seems to be a tad thinner than most paints and you need to watch carefully for drips and runs…but because it levels so nicely they are easy to manage!

Both Sherwin Williams and Benjamin Moore carry it and I have used both…with great results.

So if you are not sure what type of paint your trim/cabinet/furniture is and you don’t want to go to all the trouble of priming, try this product. So far, so good.

So that’s that for this bathroom…for now. I really don’t have any more MAJOR changes I want to make in there. But knowing me, I’ll find something. This week my project has been my utility room. A necessary change that I will share next time….

HAPPY BIRTHDAY KATIE!

Today is my precious baby girl’s 24th birthday. I started to type a post for tomorrow but I realized that nothing I had to say or share was more important than celebrating this beautiful, intelligent, precious young lady!

I have no idea where the last 24 years went…seems like just yesterday the nurses were handing me a beautiful dark haired, blued eyed, chubby ( 10 lbs 3 ozs people!!!) little girl. Even though she was my 4th and I couldn’t imagine having any room in my heart for another, somehow my heart swelled and she took her place!

She is beautiful.

She is smart.

She is kind.

She is loving.

She is strong.

She has integrity.

She is respectful.

She is happy

What more can a mom ask for?

I adore her.

I am in awe of her.

I am soooo proud of her.

I am eternally grateful for her.

I can’t imagine my life without her.

So, on this very special day 24 years ago I was blessed with another AMAZING daughter!

So HAPPY BIRTHDAY SIS!!!!!!

Luvs :)

Screened porch reveal...

SO. MUCH. RAIN! But that is spring in the Ozarks. We are again fortunate that we haven’t had severe weather…just some flooding here and there.

So much rain my poor plants are screaming ENOUGH ALREADY! They are really struggling. But soon the summer heat and dry will set in and I will be watering every day. This amazing house had an irrigation system but it had been severely neglected for years. It took a bit of time and money but I have 2/3 of the system up and running so HOPEFULLY when it is time to water I can do most of it with a flip of a switch. I still have a few porch plants that will need to be watered but its waaaay better than dragging a hose and sprinkler around the yard.

Totally off subject other than to say I have been forced to work on a few indoor projects. Those usually entail my LEAST favorite DIY chore, sewing, but if you want pretty (without a serious financial payout), it is an evil necessity!

The screened porch was no exception…there were a few sewing projects. Pooh.

So my inspiration (okay, kick in the rear) came from another blogger…Tasha. LOVE her screened porch she revealed HERE. Awesome space and if I had a large screened porch and a large family, it would be perfect. But I have a small space and it’s just us and the critters. We often joke….we have this huge house but usually all three cats and the dog manage to crowd in…we can literally take up 10 square feet.

Regardless of the space, you want it comfortable and inviting….this space was neither. It was basically where we “threw” a bunch of overflow outdoor stuff when we moved in and have neglected it since. Other than eating out here at the little table on nice evenings, it had been pretty neglected.

The little table and chairs were an auction score and over the years they sat outside and the black paint chipped. Pretty sad looking. It may be kind of “old fashion” looking, but we really do enjoying sitting at this little table for dinner and in the mornings drinking coffee.

The wicker chairs were on our porch at the old house…I think they were originally rockers but over the years the wood rotted and I removed the rocker part.

The round rug was originally my son’s and he didn’t want it so we put it out here.

My intent has been to turn the iron frame between the chairs into an outdoor side table. I think it is an old aquarium stand I salvaged from an apartment years ago.

You may notice the fan and light were pretty pathetic…so that replacement is a MUST

The “kitty corner.” They LOVE the old wicker chair that use to be my smoking chair on my back porch. I haven’t smoked in almost 10 years if that gives you an idea of how long that thing has been around. It was pretty nasty and honestly needed to go!

Even in a small space, it is important to “make a plan.” Tasha gives some excellent tips for designing a space like this, or any space for that matter.

1) If you have a large space, create zones. I didn’t really have a large space, but I do want it to serve several purposes. Eating, reading, and cat lounging (they are indoor kitties so they LOVE this outdoor space)

2) Make your space USEABLE! That was the motivation for this makeover…useable and comfortable.

3) Add as much ambient light as possible. New fan and light and I do want to eventually add a lamp on the little side table but honestly we rarely sit out there after dark so I’m in no hurry to find a suitable lamp.

4) Add plants! Unfortunately I don’t do well with indoor plants. I did have a HUGE peace lily in the all season room I divided so I put that in here…I tried adding a fuchsia but it took all of about three days for all the pretty pink blooms to drop so it went outside and I ended up adding a little potted planter of outdoor flowers. Maybe they will fair better since I am a master of most outdoor plants!

5) Bring in pops of color! Now that I can do…although if you look around you may notice I don’t do that on a large scale in my decor. But in my plan for this space I knew exactly what I wanted to do,

Pink flamingos.

Okay, so here is how that all started. Years ago Brian bought two vintage pink flamingo knick-knacks at an auction.

For some reason that has become a “thing” in our house…possibly because it is so rare for him to buy something other than guns, pocket knives and coins…lol! One Christmas Mom bought him a pink flamingo ornament. Somehow we ended up with pink flamingo metal ornaments in our yard. I bought him some flamingo socks…it just went on and on.

And honestly, I like pink and green.

So my plan for this space…

1) New cushions and pillows for the chairs. Perfect way to bring in the flamingos and A LOT of color.

2) FINALLY paint the ratty iron aquarium frame and make a top for it.

3) Paint the little table and chairs.

4) Years ago I acquired the iron frame to an old train bench from my mom. It had sat on their front porch for YEARS. Eventually the wood rotted and my intent was to rebuild it with new wood. This little porch is the perfect place for it…and it is time!

5) Add some plants here and there.

The reading area…

I made new cushions and pillows for the chairs.

A new “funky bow” for the Home Sweet Home sign that hangs on the wood frame that use to hang in our old guest bath.

I painted the little iron base and made a wood top out of some scraps I had on hand.

A few little knick knacks. The driftwood is a piece we picked up off a frozen pond in Georgetown, CO almost twenty years ago! A picture of my precious kiddos.

A new paddle fan and light…a must!

I painted the little chair and table. I had to sand it a bit to remove a bunch of chipping paint, primed it all with metal primer, then sprayed it with spray paint.

I had this old pewter compote for years and really didn’t have a clue what to do with it.

I saw a picture on Pinterest where someone had turned one into a little flower thingy….

...gives it a purpose.

I bought little vintage flamingo salt and pepper shakers off Ebay.

I bought a little rug off Etsy…

…and a little flamingo flag….(note the pathetic fuchsia)

Hopefully the impatiens will fair better…..

My favorite project was the railroad bench. Primarily because it was a family heirloom and partly because the darn thing has been sitting around for years! It was time…

New wood and good for another few decades.

Somewhere there is a picture of four of my parent’s grandsons sitting on this bench when it was on their front porch. My boys were preschoolers then. Crazy.

All in all I am pretty pleased with how it turned out.

It certainly isn’t anything as elaborate as Tasha’s but it serves our purposes!

I really didn’t spend a ton of money but the investment was worth every penny. It has been the perfect place to sit and read during the rainy, dreary days.

And of course the cats LOVE it!!!

Another rainy day project…swapping out the front porch decor for Memorial day and 4th of July.

Just a few patriotic pillows and the wreath I shared HERE.

We are officially ready for summer. If it ever stops raining……